"The only thing they bequeathed to him was a fear of women. Tomas desired but feared them. Needing to create a compromise between fear and desire, he devised what he called ‘erotic friendship.’ He would tell his mistresses: the only relationship that can make both partners happy is the one in which sentimentality has no place and neither partner makes any claim on the life and freedom of the other."
— from The Unbearable Lightness of Being
"Tomas did not realize at the time that metaphors are dangerous. Metaphors are not to be trifled with. A single metaphor can give birth to love."
— from The Unbearable Lightness of Being
"We can never know what to want, because, living only one life, we can neither compare it with our previous lives or perfect it in our lives to come."
— from The Unbearable Lightness of Being
"But was it love? The feeling of wanting to die beside her was clearly exaggerated: he had seen her only once before in his life! Was it simply the hysteria of a man who, aware deep down of his inaptitude for love, felt the self-deluding need to simulate it?"
— from The Unbearable Lightness of Being
"He smelled the delicate aroma of her fever and breathed it in, as if trying to glut himself with the intimacy of her body. And all at once he fancied she had been with him for many years and was dying. He had a sudden clear feeling that he would not survive her death. He would lie down beside her and want to die with her."
— from The Unbearable Lightness of Being
"In the world of eternal return the weight of unbearable responsibility lies heavy on every move we make. That is why Nietzsche called the idea of eternal return the heaviest of burdens (das schwerste Gewicht)."
— from The Unbearable Lightness of Being
"Making love with a woman and sleeping with a woman are two separate passions, not merely different but opposite. Love does not make itself felt in the desire for copulation (a desire that extends to an infinite number of women) but in the desire for shared sleep (a desire limited to one woman)."
— Milan Kundera, The Unbearable Lightness of Being (via oxmajik)
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"The worst thing isn’t that the world isn’t free, but that people have unlearned their freedom."
— Milan Kundera (Life Is Elsewhere) (via bodywithoutorgans) (via fuckyeahexistentialism)
"We can never know what to want, because, living only one life, we can neither compare it with our previous lives nor perfect it in our lives to come."
— Milan Kundera The Unbearable Lightness of Being (via seventyfourspecies)
(Source: quote-book, via consistentcontradiction)